Archive Month: September 2016

SEXUAL ABUSE SECRECY AND SHAME

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I have to keep it a secret Regardless of how old or how young we are, consciously; we never would like to go out in the open and share or confess the things that we have done wrong. In the case of sexual abuse victims, it would be the things that they believe they did […]

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SEXUAL ABUSE, IT IS MY FATE

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It is what it is, it is my fate. Especially sexual abuse victims who have been abused over a longer period of time, develop a perception that the situation they were or are into can no longer be changed. Their cry for help has for too long not heard or been fully neglected. Because of […]

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ISOLATION AFTER SEXUAL ABUSE

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Sexual abuse victims often carry their pain alone. Although Sexual abuse victims know that they are not the only victims they often feel alone in their pain. Either they have never shared what they have been through and/or they believe that they have to deal with it all by themselves. This isolation is often fed […]

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GUILT OVER SEXUAL ABUSE

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It is my own fault Sexual abuse victims often blame them self of what has happened to them. You can hear this in most sexual abuse stories. Sexual abuse victims often develop a limiting-belief  of that what has happened to them was their own fault. In some twisted way, victims believe they are the ones […]

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WHEN YOU SET YOUR GOALS, SET THEM HIGH. DON’T WORRY WHETHER YOU CAN ACHIEVE THEM OR NOT. IN FACT, SET THEM SO HIGH THAT YOU KNOW YOU CAN’T ACHIEVE THEM. THAT IS TO SAY, THE CURRENT YOU CAN’T. When people set their goals, too many people reason too much from who they are today, the […]

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